“Be strong enough to let go, and patient enough to wait for what you deserve.” – Unknown
love is the most beautiful thing in the universe to us, and one quote that’s always given us strength when it comes to love is “To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.” …so we hold love so special that we can’t ever be in somethin’ that isn’t truly love.
lots of people seek connections from fear energy like loneliness, insecurity, avoidance, attention seeking, or pain, and pure love can’t come from connections created from fear. they end up in relationships that are just distractions or somewhere they create more pain, and they stay in those connections no matter how wrong it feels inside, and no matter how much their heart tells them it isn’t love. they settle for relationships that fall short of what they deserve, and fall all kinds of short of what they dream love could be. all 4 of us feel somethin’ inside where we know that our love stories started in heaven with our soulmates, and anything that falls short of that… we honor what we believe, and we ask our angels for enough faith to let go.
jenna and ash have had a couple of boyfriends before, and a few of them were rough goin’ learnin’ experiences, but it was all big picture perfect in their journeys because they learned how wrong it can feel to settle for less, and how much they really do want to be patient for the kind of love they dream of. and more than anything they learned that the first love story they need to read is the one about the girl in the mirror. krissie hasn’t had much experience with boys at all, because even though she doesn’t know her soulmate yet, since she was a little girl she has always felt his soul, and she knows any other boy would feel wrong to her heart. cam is with a boyfriend now, and he’s a good soul. he inspires her, he fills her life with passion and laughter, he treats her with kindness and respect, he has integrity and gives her honesty, he truly cherishes her… and she gives him all of those things in return. and when the rest of us see them, we know beyond any kind of doubt, that the kind of love we dream of is worth waiting for.
we’re all given inner guidance about what’s love, and what just isn’t, and if we take moments to listen, the light of truth is always shining. if you feel yourself settling for less, making excuses for things you know feel wrong, crying instead of being excited, justifying when you feel disappointment, lowering your expectations to make up for it, doubting & questioning, trying to convince yourself of things, pretending the relationship is something it’s not to try to convince others, changing who you are into someone that isn’t the best you… then be strong enough to let it go, because it isn’t love. love is more than what you hope for, it’s when there are no excuses needed, when there are butterflies not tears, and everything inside just feels so right. it’s being overwhelmed with how good it feels, it’s your expectations being blown away by something even better, it’s trusting & believing, it’s when something’s so pure and true that it just radiates, and it’s something that uplifts you into the most amazing you. that kind of love story is waiting for you, so be patient for it… don’t you worry child, see heaven’s got a plan for you.